Frequently Asked Questions

How do You prefer to be addressed? +

On initial approach, you may address Me as “Mistress,” as per My chosen title.

Should we proceed, I allow subs to choose which honorific they’d like to use; I find this helps shape our dynamic according to how your submission and My Dominance mesh.

I am happy to be called Mistress, Miss, Goddess, Queen, Empress, Daddy, Mommy, or most any other title that denotes respect and/or Superiority. The only title I dislike is Princess.


What kinks do You cater to? +

Firstly, I do not “cater” to kinks. I am not here to “cater” to you; My desires always come first, and My one kink and desire is financial domination. As such, I do not operate on a set rate-based pay-to-play basis.

That said, as I see fit, I may entertain your kinks…if I think you deserve it, or if I believe the implementation of your kink(s) will render you more financially pliable. I will not even consider entertaining your auxiliary kinks until you prove yourself willing and able to feed My hunger for money.

With proper communication and boundaries in place, I am open to exploring most any fantasy, but here are some of My favourites:

  • CEI (cum eating instructions)
  • Ignore
  • Tease & Denial
  • Orgasm control
  • Edging
  • Body worship (ass, foot, tits, etc.)
  • Castration fantasy
  • Feminization
  • Humiliation/degradation
  • Political humiliation (right-wing)
  • White humiliation
  • Homewrecking (by way of Me stealing your wife/partner)
  • Cuckolding
  • Giantess

The following are kinks I will engage with only after a secure dynamic with adequate communication is established:

  • CNC (consensual non-consent)
  • Forced intox
  • Blackmail

My soft limits are as follows:

  • Chastity cages, purely because I dislike them; I prefer mental chastity. However, I recognize the value of locking up for some subs, so I may utilize chastity as I see fit.
  • Sissification, ie. dressing/acting in stereotypically feminine ways for humiliation purposes. However, "sissification" encompases a wide range of practices, and some may not necessarily differentiate between sissification and feminization; as such, some "sissification" practices may be allowed.

My hard limits are as follows:

  • Anti-Black Raceplay
  • Racial fetishization (eg. BBC)
  • Use of slurs (eg. the N-word, fxggxt)
  • Blood
  • Explicit scat (fantasy discussions are acceptable)
  • Incest (Mommy/Daddy Domme roleplay is acceptable)
  • Bestiality

If you do not see your kink listed here and would like to know My thoughts on it, you may send a tribute and inquire. I am fascinated by kink psychology, and it’s very likely that I will be open to exploring and incorporating your kink into our potential dynamic in some form.


Do You offer real-time sessions? +

At this time, I only offer public cash meets and shopping sprees, which may include light fetish play. Details can be found here.


Do You offer Skype/video call sessions? +

If you wish to book a Skype/video call session, please send an inquiry with the required $50 initial tribute. This is not something I typically offer on short notice, but am willing to arrange with advanced notice. Occasionally, I may post on My Twitter (@AllForArelia) that I am taking Skype sessions right then and there. Be sure to follow so as not to miss Me!


Do You take custom content requests? +

You may view My custom video forms on IWantClips or ManyVids, or you may inquire through My site’s contact form or Twitter (with tribute). I reserve the right to reject your request, as I will only accept those I deem of interest to Me.


Can I see You naked? +

I have a topless titty flash clip available on My clipstores for the low, very fair price of $500:
IWantClips
LoyalFans
ManyVids


What do I get for my money? +

If you are not paying directly for content, the only thing you can 100% expect in exchange for tribute is the satisfaction of knowing that I live a life of effortless abundance while you go without. If you impress Me adequately and I'm feeling generous, I may deign to grace you with My limited attention.


What if I’m not a finsub/paypig? +

If you don’t consider yourself a finsub at least to some degree, or at least are not willing to express your worship and appreciation in cash, I would advise that you seek a different Domme. If you find yourself uniquely compelled by Me, you may either seek a custom video, or perhaps you should test if financial service is right for you…I promise there’s nothing more fulfilling than submitting your funds to a Superior.

In any case, if you approach Me with a “pay-to-play” or non-findom-focused attitude, you will likely find yourself disappointed. I am selective of the subs I allow to serve Me, and I deserve nothing less than exactly what I want.


Are there any types of subs You do not wish to have serving You? +

I accept subs of all races, genders, sexual orientations, ages (over 18, of course), and abilities.

I do not tolerate topping from the bottom, selfishness, disrespectful behaviour towards Me or other Dommes, or rhetoric that supports any sort of oppression of minorities. This is not up for debate or discussion.


I want to serve You, but I’m worried I won’t be able to send enough. +

I have room for subs of most any budget at My feet; I believe that intention far outweighs amount in terms of desirability. So long as you send selflessly and respect My time, I have faith that we’ll be able to work something out, so long as you are reasonable in your expectations.

If that reassurance isn’t enough to assuage your concerns, I suggest that you a) check your ego, and b) reassess whether you wish to serve for your own benefit, or for Mine.


Can I just ask one quick question without tributing? +

If your question is general or non-kink related, you may ask via CuriousCat. Otherwise, no.